Musings, ponderings and various observations on the intersection of BJJ/Martial arts training and the living of life. I have no inclination toward either political correctness or correct spelling. This blog, such as it is, remains fundamentally an unfiltered gush of thought ... both raw and unpolished.
A large part of happiness comes from making good choices in regards to the kind of people you surround yourself with. The fact is, we are indeed surrounded (unless you are living in a cave) - by work colleagues, people you re-create with, Facebook friends, close friends, family and a throng of others. It is much easier to be happy when we make careful choices about who we let into our ‘inner circle’. This sounds a bit judgemental I know … but as someone once said, it’s important to be judgemental - just be prepared to be judged in turn. I am okay with that. I think we need to be selective in life. There are loads of open, honest, well-intentioned, positive and congruent people out there … seek them out; spend time in their company. JBW