All power to front shields ...
I am very focussed right now - and avoiding any negative talk or negative thinking. I am surrounded by people (not everyone, there are notable exceptions) who are breaking down and wallowing in their own grief. From my point of view - this is not the time for that. it is time for action - and moving forward right now. All power to the front shields - to use a Star Trek metaphor. In other words, you drive the energy to where it is needed most - and not dwell on the 'what if's' - what could have happened - what may or may not happen - you focus on the immediate task at hand.
In a state of emergency - we do much better if we attend to priorities. In this past week I have seen so much energy just bleeding off in te directions of things that do not matter - RIGHT NOW! Being in the NOW - is not only a Buddhist concept - it is a concept for dealing with emergency.
My son Ronin nearly died again last night - another hour off the operating table - and he would have. Today is much better - after another op - where a length of his intestine had to be removed after it had died from decreased O2 levels - he is once again in the Intensive Care Unit - and for now, stabilised.
My wife is my rock - my friend Dave Meyer is such an asset right now that I cannot thank him enough - and the wonderful stream of comments to this blog will, I am certain, help Ronin with his long-term recovery. Thanks so much everyone - my sincere apologies if this blog is coming across as overly self-indulgent right now. I'll be back to a more normal frame of mind soon.
much love
JBW
Comments
We hang on every word about what is happening and how things are. I know that everyone who reads this blog consistently is behind you 100%
Most of us are helpless to do anything but follow Ronins progress and hope that everything he does increases his chances..
Self indulgent? No! Informative and appreciated? Hell Yes!
Thinking of you all.
Geoff GSW
We all appreciate you keeping us updated, and just hope that our thoughts and prayers can help Ronin.
John R
What Geoff said. I like many others am checking for news several times a day if not several times an hour. We are thinking of you and appreciate you taking the time to update us in the midst of everything else.
We're pulling for Ronin and thinking of you and Melissa
Mike
I feel privileged to read your open and honest blog at this challenging time and hope that my thoughts, prayers and comments may be of benefit to you and your family.
Oliver, Will/Machado Geraldton
Cheers
Sam
My heartfelt wishes and prayers are for you, Ronin and your family. I know I am along way form Geelong, but I truly feel for you all.
I only met Ronin the once at Popa's 100th party at Bud's and I was very impressed with his amturity and inner strength.
Best wishes for the hours, days and weeks to come.
Your cousin Dean.
We start each class with an update and discussion focused on the very best for ronin you and the family. There is not much we can do from so far away other than to let you know we care.
Respectfully
Perry, Team Canada
Andy Gibbs
With sincerest wishes,
Jeff Osborn
I have met Ronin a couple of times a few years ago, albeit briefly, but with good memories. My thoughts and hopes are with him, you, loved ones and of course the medical staff.
We are constantly surrounded by incredibly unlikely events. The hold is tight but he can find the escape!
Best wishes,
James.
Prayers and best wishes from NY, to your son, you, your wife, and those who are there for you right now.
My heart goes out to you, Ronin, and all of your family.
Thanks for keeping us updated, I'm keeping you all in my thoughts and sending you positive vibes.
I even went and gave blood the other day, I know it won't help Ronin but it may just help someone in a similar situation in the UK.
Take care John,
Adam Adshead
So walk with wings under your feet, because if we could all carry you at this time, we would.
Miriam (ex Takapuna dojo)
I have to agree with Geoff, we all appreciate the continual updates, as always our thoughts are with you and your family.
All the best.
Phil.
My thoughts are with you & your family
Steve Foulds
I am so sorry to hear this has happened to your son.
You are an inspiration and example to those who know you, and it is a privilege to be able to offer words of support at such a time.
I am pleased to hear you have such good support at this time.
In times of suffering and crisis like this, the true character of a person is often revealed. Thank you for your vulnerability in sharing and example in modelling how to deal with such a traumatic event.
My thoughts and prayers are very much with you and your family at this time.
Andrew
(Thursday Beginners Classes)